It's been such a lovely day today and i think ive missed it all by sleeping! i've definately got to sort out my sleeping pattern its not healthy and its making me sleep really late into the day. Anyway this picture was taken when i was away with my bestfriend it reminded me of just how peaceful it was out there so i thought id upload it :).I've had alot of time to think today about the way we treat others, about the words we say to people and just how quickly we can influence the present for the person we say these words too.
I've decided that from now on im going to do my best to realise how powerful my words are to other people whether they are directly said or indirectly, and be more careful about the way in which i use my words.
It came to me the other evening when i was looking at other peoples formsprings and you see the damage a website can do to someones self esteem, with comments like "why are you such a horrible person" or direct comments about the way someone looks, and it makes you wonder why the creator of these words felt the need to publish their opinions to the world and upset the reciever of them...
i wonder what ever happened to the simple nice gestures such as telling someone they look nice or noticing if they've made the effort with their hair/clothes/makeup etc. I honestly think we overlook the little things so much and take them for granted, we are always so busy with our own lives that we forget to take the time out to make someone elses day a little bit brighter!
i wonder what ever happened to the simple nice gestures such as telling someone they look nice or noticing if they've made the effort with their hair/clothes/makeup etc. I honestly think we overlook the little things so much and take them for granted, we are always so busy with our own lives that we forget to take the time out to make someone elses day a little bit brighter!
I'm going to do my best to change that and try and make some little changes about the way i am towards others :)
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With all that being said im aware i spoke too soon shortly after i woke up at about 3 this afternoon i was on msn and someone popped up and was like "BIZZARD" so naturally i opened my curtains and there really was a hell of alot of snow coming down!
i was pretty pissed off by this because i had actualy wanted to go to brookefield to do some shopping! however that didn't end up happening but i did go to sainsburys where i skidded on some very dangerous ice, had a snow ball fight in the car park lost my key ring that went onto my car keys, gave away my little bear that came with the car keys and debated over how much weetabix was too much :).
after this we paid for all our stuff and i saw someone ive been trying to get to know for the past week or so.. this wasnt the best of interactions ive ever had cos i was all nervous and shy and all that i could come up with was "alright" as a opening to a dead conversation so after this we left and i returned on my journey home where i got thoroughly confused by some silly person trying to park, almost skidded into a curb and then carried on, on my way to find my parking space gone!
By this time id just let evrything happen in a sort of whirwind kinda way, i was excited for him to finish work and expected a text..
this didn't happen. :(
however when i did decide to text him i got a short reply and the no responce it was a lovely way to boost my mood before i went to bed!
anyways despite this i spoke to this other boy who seems to have a real insight into the way people think but its like a realistic view, so when i become irrational and all uhappy and touchy he helps me out by showing me the reality of the situation.
i think this is all im gonna post for now as im slightly sad and not sleepy at all so im gonna waste my time some other way!
^^
With all that being said im aware i spoke too soon shortly after i woke up at about 3 this afternoon i was on msn and someone popped up and was like "BIZZARD" so naturally i opened my curtains and there really was a hell of alot of snow coming down!
i was pretty pissed off by this because i had actualy wanted to go to brookefield to do some shopping! however that didn't end up happening but i did go to sainsburys where i skidded on some very dangerous ice, had a snow ball fight in the car park lost my key ring that went onto my car keys, gave away my little bear that came with the car keys and debated over how much weetabix was too much :).
after this we paid for all our stuff and i saw someone ive been trying to get to know for the past week or so.. this wasnt the best of interactions ive ever had cos i was all nervous and shy and all that i could come up with was "alright" as a opening to a dead conversation so after this we left and i returned on my journey home where i got thoroughly confused by some silly person trying to park, almost skidded into a curb and then carried on, on my way to find my parking space gone!
By this time id just let evrything happen in a sort of whirwind kinda way, i was excited for him to finish work and expected a text..
this didn't happen. :(
however when i did decide to text him i got a short reply and the no responce it was a lovely way to boost my mood before i went to bed!
anyways despite this i spoke to this other boy who seems to have a real insight into the way people think but its like a realistic view, so when i become irrational and all uhappy and touchy he helps me out by showing me the reality of the situation.
i think this is all im gonna post for now as im slightly sad and not sleepy at all so im gonna waste my time some other way!
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